By David Maughan
The
Christmas of 1983 is one I will never forget. As a young 19-year-old, I found
myself halfway around the world in Victoria, Argentina. Argentina had just lost
a bitter war to Great Britain over the Falkland Islands or Las Malvinas, as
they were called in Argentina. The economy was experiencing inflation of more
than 2,000 percent. Money earned that day had to be spent that day or changed
to dollars on the black market, or the next day it would be worth half as much.
Everywhere
I looked, I saw extreme poverty. Panhandling was a way of life for just about
everyone in this small town, which boasted very few people of means and its
fair share of poverty. Small children wandered the streets asking for bread or
money, fearful to return home without anything for fear of a father’s wrath.
My
companion and I went to visit a very poor family who lived in the “Villa,” the
poorest part of town, late on Christmas Eve. Cardboard boxes rudely taped
together formed the walls, while dirt adorned the floors of the makeshift home.
We sat down on the only two small wooden crates in the house while the rest of
the family sat on the dirt floor.
The
oldest daughter, about 9 years old, opened a small cooler and removed two
pieces of bread. We began to refuse, but the father said it would honor him if
we would share their evening meal. We knew that they didn’t have any other food
in the house. I humbly ate the piece of bread, constantly wiping the tears
streaming down my face, knowing that I would offend the entire family if I
didn’t eat.
When
we left the home later that evening, we had been fed both physically and
spiritually by this humble family, who despite their extreme poverty, expressed
a belief in God and told us that they knew he loved them. I was struggling with
my emotions as we walked toward our warm comfortable flat.
Somewhere
along our pathway home, we decided to do something about what we had seen. Our
combined monthly draw against our savings accounts amounted to just over $90
each. We stopped at the corner store and purchased about $20 worth of food and
a small refrigerator that cost us an additional $35. Every family in the Villa
had somehow finagled electricity, and as a result every cardboard box had an
antenna that protruded from the roof, giving the small cities an interesting
look.
Christmas
morning was met with a short heavy rainstorm followed by clear skies. We
grabbed the items we had purchased the night before and carefully walked along
the muddy path carrying our Christmas gifts. When we clapped our hands to let
the family know we were there, the father came out of the house with a puzzled
look on his face. When we explained to him that we had brought Christmas gifts,
his eyes lit up with surprise. He welcomed us into his home, and we once again
sat down. We both felt that we had given this man and his family a great gift,
one that they would never forget. However, once again the good Lord taught us
something we could only learn in such humble circumstances as the ones we found
ourselves in.
As I
looked around at the children who anticipated the father handing them some of
the gifts, I saw a gleam enter the father’s eyes. This time he really surprised
us when he instructed his wife to separate the food and to only keep enough for
the Christmas meal. He then asked to be excused as he gathered the excess food
and walked outside into the warm Christmas air with the leftover bags of
groceries and went out and called to his neighbors.
We
followed to see what he was going to do. One by one, he gave each of his
nearest neighbors in his Villa something from the bags and wished them a Merry
Christmas. I can’t express my feelings adequately enough except to say that on
that Christmas day, I saw a humble man who could’ve been bitter against God
because of his circumstances in life, share the gift he had been given, even
though he didn’t know where the next meal for his family would come from. I saw
the light of hope kindled by a loving God through this man’s actions.
I learned that the lessons the Savior taught us can be relearned over and over again, can be in essence rediscovered at critical times in our lives and remind us all of the true nature and spirit of Christmas.
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