by Dianne H. Despain
Many
years ago I had the good fortune to be a volunteer teacher at a privately owned
home for mentally disabled children where my duties included helping children
with their normal daily routines, reading stories to them, teaching music, and
creating various forms of entertainment. I was given permission to teach a
gospel class to a few of the more receptive and eager students.
My
eight gospel students, who ranged in age from 8 to 16, were excited to learn
about Jesus Christ. Despite their various capacities to learn, they responded
well, each in his own way—except for Freddie.
Freddie
was 14 years old, mildly mentally disabled, and severely disturbed emotionally.
He had been abandoned when he was very young, and no one really cared about him
other than the people who worked or lived at the home. For this reason I
allowed Freddie to become a class member, even though he was the center of
every disruption imaginable. It bothered me that I did not seem to be getting
through to my little troublemaker. While the rest of the class seemed to have
some concept of whom Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ were and what they
represented, Freddie seemed oblivious.
Each
week it was my practice to present each child with a scripture verse. While
most of the children could not read, many taped their verses to the wall above
their beds so they could be reminded of it as they offered their evening
prayers—a requirement in my class. However, each
time I gave Freddie his verse, he would tear it up in front of me. It was
frustrating, and I was beginning to seriously consider removing him from the class.
As
Christmas approached, I explained to my children the meaning of this special
holiday. All but Freddie seemed receptive. Then, a few days before Christmas,
the home held a party and invited everyone: staff, volunteers, students, and
parents. As I mingled with the guests, I did not see Freddie. I found him in
his room, laboring over a very crumpled, worn-looking package that he was
trying to wrap by himself. I left him to his task and returned to the party.
Shortly after, Freddie approached me and threw the package in my lap and ran
away. When I opened the package, I found a ragged piece of burlap, hand sewn at
the top, with a piece of cork glued in the middle. It was a wall hanging, and
the cork in the middle was to be used to tack up the weekly scripture verses.
Later, I was told that Freddie had worked for three months on the gift. It was
indeed a labor of love, sacrifice, and patience, for I knew the frustrations
Freddie must have suffered in making it. Maybe in his own way Freddie had
understood what I had been trying to teach him.
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